Safe Holiday Drinking

The holiday season is a wonderful time to reconnect with your family and friends, and celebrate what truly matters most. Many of these celebrations involve alcohol, and more people are likely to drink beyond their limits during these celebrations. Drinking beyond your limits could have serious consequences ranging from fights to falls to traffic crashes to fatalities. Here are some ways to have a safe holiday season.

Know the effects of alcohol
Alcohol initially acts as a stimulant, and this causes people to feel upbeat and excited.  However, alcohol will also decrease inhibitions and judgement which can lead to poor decision making. Alcohol can also affect people’s reaction time and balance which can lead to accidents. Some people may become aggressive. Alcohol primarily act as a depressant, hindering signals in the brain that control automatic responses such as the gag reflex. Continuing to drink despite clear signs of significant impairments can result in a potentially deadly type of overdose called alcohol poisoning (NIAA). Symptoms of alcohol poisoning are mental confusion, inability to wake up, vomiting changes in breathing, seizures and hypothermia. Blackouts can occur when someone is severely intoxicated. Blackouts cause a person to have periods of amnesia and they do not remember what happened while they were drinking.

Know your limit
Everyone can tolerate a different amount of alcohol. With that being said, there are some standards put in place by the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. The standard for women is no more than 3 drinks on any day and no more than 7 drinks per week. The standard for men is no more than 4 drinks on any day and no more than 14 drinks per week (NIAAA).

Have “drink spacer” and pace yourself
Having a non-alcoholic drink between each alcoholic one has a couple of benefits. You are not getting impaired as quickly, and you are controlling what you are drinking. You are also more likely to keep to the 3 or 4 drink limit depending.

Always have plans to get home safe 
According to recent studies, the holiday season is one of the most dangerous time of the year for drunk driving and alcohol-related fatalities (Alcohol Monitoring Systems). Have a designated driver or a taxi take you home if you will be drinking.

Have a safe and happy holiday!

Surviving Holiday Stress

Ah, the holidays. A time of joy, lights, festivities, and... stress.

There are many stressors during this time of year: buying gifts (especially during financial strain), family interactions, entertaining, travel hassles, and thinking about loved ones who have recently passed. These things can be overwhelming for all of us, and these stressors can be especially triggering for those who are experiencing mental health conditions such as anxiety and depression. When stress is at its peak, it's hard to stop and regroup. And while some symptoms of stress may require professional mental health treatment and support, there are some strategies you may be able to do yourself to lessen the emotional toll of the holidays. Who knows, maybe you'll find a strategy that you'll begin to use whenever you're stressed, whether it's the holiday season or not. You'll never know until you try it!

• Take four deep breaths. Close your eyes. Slowly inhale and exhale four times, making sure to completely exhale each time, pushing all the air out. If your thoughts wander, that's ok, just go back to focusing on your breathing. If you need some guidance, try inhaling and exhaling in sync with the video below. (Inhale as the shape grows larger, and exhale as it shrinks.)

(Source: ghostvvolfe)

• Acknowledge your feelings. It's ok to feel whatever you're feeling. If you're feeling tense and stressed, acknowledge it and take some time to do what you need to do to comfort yourself. If you've recently lost a loved one or can't be with loved ones, know that it's ok to feel sadness or grief. Give yourself some time to cry or express your feelings.
• Make yourself a priority. Remember to schedule some "me" time and take care of yourself. Once you take care of yourself, you'll be better able to check off your "to-do" items.

• Don't abandon healthy habits. It may be tempting to indulge in all the cookies or the extra eggnog, but focusing on your health and sticking to your routine can be so important. Try eating a healthy snack before holiday parties so you don't go overboard. Or take a small amount of your "less healthy" favorites and a larger amount of the healthier options. Try going for a walk after a meal and remember to drink plenty of water.
• Stay tobacco free. The holiday season can also be especially challenging for those who are working to quit smoking or stay tobacco free. Remember, the WI QuitLine is here to help, just call 1-800-QUIT-NOW to talk with a coach and get free quit medication sent to you. It can make quitting (or staying quit) much less stressful this holiday season.

• If you know of someone who may be struggling during the holidays, reach out. Whether they've lost a loved one, are experiencing a lot of stress in their life, or are just having a tough time, be there for them. Express your concern and sympathy, really listen to them, and ask what you can do to help. It could be helping them with errands, going out to lunch, or just sitting with them. If you think they might be experiencing a mental illness, remind them that mental illnesses are treatable and that help is out there.

Whatever works for you, remember to stick to it! We all have mental health and we all need to work on staying mentally healthy. We can't be truly healthy without taking care of our mental health, so this holiday season, make sure to pay some attention to your brain and emotions and practice self-care!